[4.12.6] Degraded etcd on assisted-installer installation- bootstrap etcd is not removed properly

Etcd operator is in degraded state as one of the masters can't connect.
Master that fails to connect was previously bootstrap and pivoted as part of assisted-installer installation to master.

Etcd log:
2023-01-17T23:09:26.523562312Z 28dcf1b0a44481b0, started, test-infra-cluster-04bf4418-master-1, https://192.168.127.11:2380, https://192.168.127.11:2379, false
2023-01-17T23:09:26.523562312Z 30600b5b86e23c8e, started, etcd-bootstrap, https://192.168.127.12:2380, https://192.168.127.12:2379, false
2023-01-17T23:09:26.523562312Z 73f00626fee34a87, started, test-infra-cluster-04bf4418-master-0, https://192.168.127.10:2380, https://192.168.127.10:2379, false
2023-01-17T23:09:26.541214220Z #### attempt 0
2023-01-17T23:09:26.547811132Z       member={name="test-infra-cluster-04bf4418-master-1", peerURLs=[https://192.168.127.11:2380}, clientURLs=[https://192.168.127.11:2379]
2023-01-17T23:09:26.547811132Z       member={name="etcd-bootstrap", peerURLs=[https://192.168.127.12:2380}, clientURLs=[https://192.168.127.12:2379]
2023-01-17T23:09:26.547811132Z       member={name="test-infra-cluster-04bf4418-master-0", peerURLs=[https://192.168.127.10:2380}, clientURLs=[https://192.168.127.10:2379]
2023-01-17T23:09:26.547811132Z       target={name="etcd-bootstrap", peerURLs=[https://192.168.127.12:2380}, clientURLs=[https://192.168.127.12:2379]
2023-01-17T23:09:26.547846508Z member "https://192.168.127.12:2380" dataDir has been destroyed and must be removed from the cluster

There are couple of problems that we see:
1. For unknown reason etcd operator BootstrapTeardownController fails to start as it fails to see "openshift-etcd" namespace though by the logs it is there.
2023-01-17T21:39:43.323928903Z E0117 21:39:43.323917       1 base_controller.go:272] BootstrapTeardownController reconciliation failed: failed to get bootstrap scaling strategy: failed to get openshift-etcd names

2. DelayStrategy code was change by https://github.com/openshift/cluster-etcd-operator/pull/964/files and currently it requires 3 healthy members in order to remove. It can create issues as etcd and cluster-bootstrap(bootkube) are not synchronized and nothing is actually blocking bootstrap on stop etcd and block remove of bootstrap etcd.(at least how i understand the flow)

It is race as far as i understand but reproduced pretty much in our CI by installing 4.12 nightlies

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Etcd is degrade cause third joined master etcd can't start

Etcd is healthy