InfinispanSessionManager should be more discriminating about listener registration

InfinispanSessionManager registers a listener for the following events:

1. CacheEntryRemoved
2. CacheEntryActivated
3. CacheEntryPassivated

However, the first listener is only required when statistics are enabled, while the second is only required for local, passivating caches. Given that the default ha and full-ha configurations use neither of these, when can be more discriminating about registering these.