Update add-user to use AESH or move it into the CLI

Within the add-user utility it is difficult to handle situations where we do not have access to a java.io.Console which is the easiest way to handle password reading without an echo to the user e.g. in Cygwin

Switching to AESH would allow us to use the implementation there to handle this.

Alternatively it may actually make sense to make add-user a special mode of the CLI, we may at some point want to switch to runtime operations being executed on the server so porting to the CLI could be the first step to make this possible.

Overall this is going to require further discussion so the comments here are just a starting point.