Example usage (virtio-mem-pci is introduced in follow-up patches):

Start QEMU with two virtio-mem devices (one per NUMA node):
 $ qemu-system-x86_64 -m 4G,maxmem=20G \
  -smp sockets=2,cores=2 \
  -numa node,nodeid=0,cpus=0-1 -numa node,nodeid=1,cpus=2-3 \
  [...]
  -object memory-backend-ram,id=mem0,size=8G \
  -device virtio-mem-pci,id=vm0,memdev=mem0,node=0,requested-size=0M \
  -object memory-backend-ram,id=mem1,size=8G \
  -device virtio-mem-pci,id=vm1,memdev=mem1,node=1,requested-size=1G

Query the configuration:
 (qemu) info memory-devices
 Memory device [virtio-mem]: "vm0"
   memaddr: 0x140000000
   node: 0
   requested-size: 0
   size: 0
   max-size: 8589934592
   block-size: 2097152
   memdev: /objects/mem0
 Memory device [virtio-mem]: "vm1"
   memaddr: 0x340000000
   node: 1
   requested-size: 1073741824
   size: 1073741824
   max-size: 8589934592
   block-size: 2097152
   memdev: /objects/mem1

Add some memory to node 0:
 (qemu) qom-set vm0 requested-size 500M

Remove some memory from node 1:
 (qemu) qom-set vm1 requested-size 200M

Query the configuration again:
 (qemu) info memory-devices
 Memory device [virtio-mem]: "vm0"
   memaddr: 0x140000000
   node: 0
   requested-size: 524288000
   size: 524288000
   max-size: 8589934592
   block-size: 2097152
   memdev: /objects/mem0
 Memory device [virtio-mem]: "vm1"
   memaddr: 0x340000000
   node: 1
   requested-size: 209715200
   size: 209715200
   max-size: 8589934592
   block-size: 2097152
   memdev: /objects/mem1