Allow to override the Oracle JDBC metadata for native images also on Windows

Fixes #25954

Turns out the issue is that we include a "?" symbol in the regex to match both resources that we need excluded in the Oracle JDBC driver; this breaks the build on Windows as it causes something odd in parameter parsing.

We also can't quote it as GraalVM wouldn't accept a quoted regex - and we can't escape it.

We can workaround this problem by emitting two different sets of `--exclude-config` options, one for each resource, rather than attempting to conflate both resources in a single regex.