This is a clone of issue OCPBUGS-18569. The following is the description of the original issue:
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We are seeing flakes on CNO pod restarts flake in hypershift CI on the hypershift control plane

https://gcsweb-ci.apps.ci.l2s4.p1.openshiftapps.com/gcs/origin-ci-test/pr-logs/pull/openshift_hypershift/2967/pull-ci-openshift-hypershift-main-e2e-kubevirt-aws-ovn/1699008879737704448/artifacts/e2e-kubevirt-aws-ovn/run-e2e-local/artifacts/TestCreateCluster/namespaces/e2e-clusters-pvhd5-example-s6skm/core/pods/logs/cluster-network-operator-78fd774c97-7w7dg-cluster-network-operator-previous.log

W0905 11:42:53.359515       1 builder.go:106] graceful termination failed, controllers failed with error: failed to get infrastructure name: infrastructureName not set in infrastructure 'cluster'

The current backoff is set to retry.DefaultBackoff which is appropriate for 409 conflicts and only retries for < 1s

var DefaultBackoff = wait.Backoff{
	Steps:    4,
	Duration: 10 * time.Millisecond,
	Factor:   5.0,
	Jitter:   0.1,
}

Elsewhere in the codebase, retry.DefaultBackoff is used with retry.RetryOnConflict() where it is appropriate, but we need to retry for much longer here and much less frequently.