Capi provider reconciliation from old versions might fail to reconcile

https://redhat-internal.slack.com/archives/C061SJRTKDG/p1697798046548799
In some ocm envs the latest HO is stuck onreconciliating CAPI provider for some 4.12 HCs

{"level":"error","ts":"2023-10-20T10:53:27Z","msg":"Reconciler error","controller":"hostedcluster","controllerGroup":"hypershift.openshift.io","controllerKind":"HostedCluster","HostedCluster":{"name":"build08","namespace":"ocm-production-23qm3j1pkslelghufgs874g86ccn5sba"},"namespace":"ocm-production-23qm3j1pkslelghufgs874g86ccn5sba","name":"build08","reconcileID":"482f297f-8afb-407c-96d9-bc1de727ef78","error":"failed to reconcile capi provider: failed to reconcile capi provider deployment: Deployment.apps \"capi-provider\" is invalid: spec.selector: Invalid value: v1.LabelSelector{MatchLabels:map[string]string{\"app\":\"capi-provider-controller-manager\", \"control-plane\":\"capi-provider-controller-manager\", \"hypershift.openshift.io/control-plane-component\":\"capi-provider-controller-manager\"}, MatchExpressions:[]v1.LabelSelectorRequirement(nil)}: field is immutable","stacktrace":"sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller.(*Controller).reconcileHandler\n\t/opt/app-root/src/vendor/sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller/controller.go:326\nsigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller.(*Controller).processNextWorkItem\n\t/opt/app-root/src/vendor/sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller/controller.go:273\nsigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller.(*Controller).Start.func2.2\n\t/opt/app-root/src/vendor/sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/internal/controller/controller.go:234"}

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reconciliation is tuck

reconciliation succeeds