Add optional monitoring logic in CMO to allow it to properly reconcile under the same capability. Also ensure optional monitoring is reflected under the ClusterOperator Status, as well as a metric (see https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hHevhX6FnbUNfsW6b35M4qxgSr731SMBKSekhqQBMqc/edit?disco=AAABsejNYTI).