When the secret key has not yet been received in ASYM_ENCRYPT, messages received from other members are queued until the secret key has been received, and then drained.

This leads to unneeded complexity and is actually not needed: when a member joins or merges, it gets a JOIN_RSP or INSTALL_MERGE_VIEW unicast message, which can safely be dropped as they're retransmitted.

So, instead of queuing messages when the secret key has not yet been received, we simply drop them.