Hot Rod server should ignore IllegalLifecycleStateException from address cache

When the server is shutting down, some client requests may be still executing after the address cache has been stopped. Those requests will get an IllegalLifecycleStateException while trying to generate a topology update and will fail to send any response to the client.

The client receives the exception, closes the channel, and retries. But since the server already computed the operation response, it would be much better if they got that instead.