Support connector scoped trustore/keystore for MongoDB

Currently using SSL with MongoDB means that the user need to use the global JVM keystore/trustre or implement their own MongoDbAuthProvider. Lately there was an increased demand to simplify this configuration

MongoDb provides the ability to specify custom SSL context (either standard java or netty) https://www.mongodb.com/docs/drivers/java/sync/current/fundamentals/connection/tls/#customize-tls-ssl-configuration-through-the-java-se-sslcontext