Update connector configuration examples in deployment instructions

An internal user identified errors in examples of the YAML files for creating the KafkaConnector resource to connectors instances.

The errors appear in content that is sourced from the shared upstream file /partials/modules/all-connectors/proc-using-streams-to-deploy-a-debezium-connector.adoc.

I'll apply the necessary updates first to the 1.9.7 version of the downstream documentation first.

Afterwards, I'll update the shared source in `main` so that the docs for future releases render values for each settings that are relevant for the different connectors. This might require some restructuring or additional conditionalization. 

• Values for database.port are currently all set to the same MySQL port number (3306)
  Replace with the following values:
  • db2 50000
  • mysql 3306
  • mongo 27017 (in mongodb.hosts)
  • pg 5432
  • oracle 1521
  • sql server 1433

• The property database.include.list is used, rather than table.include.list (For MongoDB, replace with collection.include.list)
• For MongoDB, the example lists several options that don't apply:
  • database.hostname Remove - replaced by mongodb.hosts
  • database.port Remove - replaced by mongodb.hosts
  • database.user Remove - replaced by mongodb.user
  • database.password Remove - replaced by mongodb.password
  • database.dbname Remove - Not valid
  • database.server.name Remove - Not valid