Update cache-invalidation example

Update cache-invalidation example, there are several places where updates are needed:

• while maven dependencies are updated by github dependency bot, actually dependencies used when running the example are in Docker file - put in sync maven dependencies and postgres and infinispan versions in docker file
• update wildfly version
• use example-postgres docker image instead of postgres image
• use env. variable for specifying postgres image version
• unify maven property name with debezium version to be version.debezium - same as in other example so we can easily grep for it when bumping DBZ version
• use same naming schema for other maven properties
• update DBZ version
• update jboss-deplyment-structure to reflect ISPN 11 modules structure