Total Order: timeout exceptions are not throw correctly

Issues found in Cloud-TM. Check if they happen here and create a JIRA for each of them

• IgnoreExtraResponseFilter is not needed anymore.
• missing argument log message
• TimeoutException, when happens, it is ignored and the transaction is processed normally
• TimeoutException can block the total order chain (all system is blocked!)
• port the testTimeoutCleanup from cloudtm to master